Tag: Non-Violent Communication (NVC)

Jerry Koch-Gonzalez, Massachusetts, US

Pioneer Valley Cohousing Jerry Koch-Gonzalez is a certified sociocracy consultant who lives in Amherst MA. He was one of the founding partners of the Sociocracy Consulting Group. Then with Ted J. Rau, he became a co- founder of Sociocracy for All (SOFA) and the Sociocracy Academy. His focus is individual and organizational development in governance, decision-making, communication skills, and conflict resolution. His whole career has been in organizing, educating, and consulting for social justice in one forum or… Read More . . . “Jerry Koch-Gonzalez, Massachusetts, US”

Equating Consensus and Non-Violent Communication (NVC) with Governance

Often heard: “We don’t use sociocracy or dynamic governance; we use consensus.” Or, “We don’t use dynamic governance; we use non-violent communication (NVC). The simple problem with these oppositions is that neither consensus nor NVC are governance methods. They don’t come with a set of principles or practices for structuring an organization, managing operations, and ensuring that the appropriate people are making the necessary decisions. Consensus is a method for making decisions, just like majority… Read More . . . “Equating Consensus and Non-Violent Communication (NVC) with Governance”

Conflict Resolution: The Fixer

Many communities—cohousing, religious, etc.—believe that conflict resolution is based on loving and understanding. That if we just care more and understand each other’s needs, conflict will go away. They emphasize how hard this is. “This is the hard work we all need to do.” Peace workers, in particular, are big on love and understanding and couple attempts to acquire it not only with hard work but with courage. “It takes a lot of courage to… Read More . . . “Conflict Resolution: The Fixer”

The Fixer

Many communities—cohousing, religious, etc.—believe that conflict resolution is based on loving and understanding. That if we just care more and understand each other’s needs, conflict will go away. They emphasize how hard this is. “This is the hard work we all need to do.” Peace workers, in particular, are big on love and understanding and couple attempts to acquire it not only with hard work but with courage. “It takes a lot of courage to… Read More . . . “The Fixer”